A man who:

has a great sense of style, not necessarily trendy and fashionable, but deliberately-yet-effortlessly creates and ensemble each day.  Maybe he wears cool vintage blazers, or he layers faded tees, or he wears just a thin fitted button-down and khakis.  Please stray away from the status-symbol suits n ties or the classic aka boring button-down and slacks.  Crazy interesting sneakers OR comfy flip flops are a must.  Anything cool, casual, and either unusual or effortless.

has great hair.  preferably touchable.  mmmm shaggy...  faux hawk...  punky spikey if you're blessed with straight hair...  that's it.  that's it.

has a strong voice!  (literally and figuratively)

is naturally talented and athletic.

naturally has great teeth.

=has good genetics.

has a younger (but not older) sister (and not too many) with whom he was raised.  He has learned how to take care of a female, and he has protective male instincts.

has good, refined tastes.

knows how to be the life of the party.

has an interesting answer to everything.

doesn't give up.